PRESENZA - Making Peace with the Inevitable

Making Peace with the Inevitable Photo: Steven Darby, CMC CD2004-0245 D2004-6088

In the 1950s, when someone died in the village of Picerno in Basilicata, it was customary to hold a viewing of the body in the home. For two days, friends and relatives could visit the deceased and the family members. Elderly women mourned the deceased. But they did more than cry. Clapping their hands to keep time, they accompanied their tears with a cantilena describing the person's achievements, character and kindness, as well as the highlights of his or her life.

Crucifix
Photo: Steven Darby, CMC CD2004-1169 D2004-18503
(1) Crucifix
Italy
c. 1890
Wood, plaster
Lent by Francesco De Carli

(2) Crucifix
Italy
Early 20th century
Wood
Lent by Francesco De Carli

(3) Cherub figurines
Campania region, Italy
1957
Wood, gesso, paint, gilt
Lent by Germana Brunke
Crucifix (detail)
Photo: Steven Darby, CMC CD2004-1169 D2004-18502
(1) Crucifix (detail)
Crucifix
Photo: Steven Darby, CMC CD2004-1169 D2004-18494
(2) Crucifix

This was how many Italian immigrants learned from childhood to face death. They were familiar with it and learned to view this difficult moment as an inevitable aspect of life, rather than a taboo subject to be relegated to specialized institutions. They also learned to turn it into a collective experience, a time when the person who is dying and the immediate family are not left to face their pain, sorrow and mourning alone. They came to believe that death does not erase the importance of the time spent with those we loved, nor does it put an end to our presence among the living ... as long as we continue to live in their memory.